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Old-Time Buddhist Gospel Hour

Delivered by Calen Rayne, February 26, 2006
At the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship, New Bern, NC

While poets, writers and musicians have waxed eloquent throughout the ages about oceans and lakes and streams, there is no doubt that what is most often considered synonymous with the perpetual flow of our myriad of experiences is a river. 

My fondest memories of childhood are weekends spent with my father and brothers and uncles on the Huron River in Ohio running trotlines to catch catfish. When I was eight years old, a 57 pounder got my dad named Ohio fisherman of the year. Throughout high school my friends and I discussed poetry, philosophy and politics deep into the night while fishing for carp on the three rivers in Fort Wayne , Indiana . And though I was a fishing guide on West Lake for two summers in Wellington, Ontario, all my clients were taken to a six mile course of water meandering between 10 foot tall cattails until no wider than a canoe known affectionately as “the river.”

In Bhaktapur, near Kathmandhu in Nepal , I sat in meditation many days as family after family cremated their loved ones’ remains on a makeshift ghat. Their ashes were carefully directed to a small ditch to join a trickle of water that would eventually wind its way to India and the Ganges River . Though so narrow that to refer to this small stream as a creek would be an exaggeration, one elderly Hindu man explained that his wife’s ashes must be “placed in the holy waters of this river” so she might one day be reborn again to continue her journey. Allen Ginsberg once told me that “the universe begins with a rain drop…” and Dylan Thomas believed…

My birthday begins with the water.

It is not surprising that most Unitarian Universalist congregations begin their year with a water ceremony, to symbolize the oneness of our seemingly individual journeys by creating a vessel of drops of that very liquid which comprises most of our planet and most of our bodies… water. When we join our drops of water, we acknowledge our Unitarian Universalist heritage, and all our names become one…

All the great rivers on reaching the great ocean lose their former names and identities and are reckoned simply as the great ocean…        The Buddha

Is it possible we may be oblivious to the existence of a maker, a controller of fates, what might be referred to as “an essence”—who wields us very deftly? And could that entity be water itself? Tom Robbins has posited that human beings were created by water as a means of transporting itself from one place to another.

You probably have realized by now that each order of service has a different brushstroke painting of “a river” on it. 

We gather in this sanctuary each week to worship together even though our paths are different, the “rivers” we encounter which may have had an influence on our lives are not necessarily the same even though their foundation or “essence” as it were are of this wonderful element of water.

And this congregation has it’s own “river” that you are all a part of, and as it continues to flow, it will bring about life-altering changes to the people it touches..In my 40 year journey along a number of Buddhist and spiritual paths since high school, I believe I always encounter rivers because ancient masters speak of our Buddha-nature flowing like a river, without pause. And on this seemingly seamless journey, I am continually reminded of life’s most urgent question, “what are you doing for others?”

All religions are similar in that they have some powerful system of advice, a “golden rule" as it were, with respect to the practice of compassion. In the words of Jesus from Luke 6:31, “Do to others as you would have them do to you.” 

And the Buddha from Dhammapada, 10:1, “Consider others as yourself.” 

Just as Christianity has a holy trinity comprised of Father, Son and Holy Ghost, Buddhism has the Three Jewels of Buddha, Dharma and Sangha. The chief quality of a Buddha is great compassion, Buddhist doctrines, or the dharma, are rooted in compassion, and the sangha, or virtuous community, follows these teachings on compassion. We must understand that we are a lot like those with whom we surround ourselves, and that our environment is stronger than we are. Here we understand each other’s struggles and disappointments, our hardships and inadequacies, and we open our hearts. From time to time someone or some thing may “break our heart,” but it is possible that God may keep breaking our heart until it remains open. 

Then we will learn to judge no one, but to cradle all of humanity in our heart, acknowledging the inherent worth and dignity of everyone. There are days we may feel like strangers, but when our hearts remain open, we will realize that in this moment we belong right here.

When the heart is open, it’s easier for the mind to be turned toward God.           Ram Dass

And when we turn our mind toward God, our individual rivers flow with three particular attributes, our faith in the process, the love each one of us brings to this process, and our shared willingness to submit to this journey.

Creatures never rest until they have gotten into human nature; therein do they attain to their original form, God namely      Meister Eckhart 

To make this life what it should be, we must encourage a hopeful disposition, for with such a disposition heart and mind are set to work in synch, and a person can do his or her best. Life is a journey, and it is important that we do our utmost to make our journey a journey of compassion.

We are in this world to make it better, to lift it to a higher levelof enjoyment and progress, and there is indeed a certain amount of responsibility resting upon each one of us from the least to the greatest.   Florence Spearing Randolph

In Mahayana Buddhism in particular great emphasis is placed on realizing the union of wisdom and compassionate action.  So may we all have the wisdom to become an integral part of this nurturing “river of compassion.”   For wisdom is not worth having, unless in each moment it is applied in acts of compassion, nor compassion useful unless directed by a wisdom that knows what to do.

Share your love, your wisdom, and your wealth and serve each other as much as possible. Live in harmony with one another and be an example of peace, love, compassion and wisdom.     Lama Thubten Yeshe

With each passing moment we are given an opportunity to create joy in this life, and must continually ask only this one question, “what is the best way of helping other people.” Do not doubt your ability to create joy in this life. 

“I am larger and better than I thought…I did not think I held so much goodness.”    Walt Whitman

It’s all about simple, clear parameters. You can’t think big anymore so you think small, and then suddenly everything seems important. There’s no such thing as an insignificant moment, each moment is a gift and not to be wasted. 

Sometimes I would almost rather have people take away years of my life than take away a moment.          Pearl Bailey

When we feel love and kindness towards others, it not only makes others feel loved and cared for, it helps us to develop inner peace and happiness as well. Through acts of kindness our world softens. With each compassionate act, we enter the sacred realm of Buddhahood. 

In the Sutra Ch’o Yang-dag-par Du-pa, it is said:

One who desires to attain Buddhahood need not learn many Dharmas; only one Dharma should be learned. What that is, is Great Compassion. One who has Great Compassion is like one who has all the Buddha’s dharmas in his palm. 

Practice this Dharma, for merely having knowledge of the Dharma will not help. It must be put into practice. Opportunities for compassionate gestures will come to you 

like ripples on still waters, they will arrive one after another, and you must be in the moment to both acknowledge and respond to their presence. For if you do not care for others, who then will care for you? 

Without deep reflection one knows from daily life that one exists for other people, and only a life lived for others is a life worthwhile.              Albert Einstein

While I was at Naropa, I had the privilege of studying with Allen Ginsberg for two years. He had recently been diagnosed with cancer and had switched to a macrobiotic diet. Jini and I had a long background in natural foods, and on occasion, after a full day at Naropa, we would assist Allen with food preparation.And while preparing a meal, we often discussed Japanese and Chinese poetry, haiku in particular, a common passion we shared. One evening Allen burned a lentil and rice dish while we were debating positioning of a single word in one of Buson’s haiku. And Allen said: 

“you know, it is the quality of attention that makes things sacred.” 

“It is the quality of attention that makes things sacred.”

And one must bring such mindful attention to this sacred place, for once one has developed “quality of attention,” one needs  to “pay attention to what one pays attention to.” 

As we gather again each September in our Unitarian Universalist sanctuaries for our water services, not only our spirits, but those of all who came before us will be represented. In Concord , New Hampshire, we entered our sanctuary by passing a communion set given to the church by Ralph Waldo Emerson’s wife, who was a member there. That church is nearing its 185thanniversary, and that communion set, used by Emerson when he preached there, is still in use today for a “people’s” communion.

This congregation, may not have that much history yet but some day you will. As you worship here, listen to the voices. They are the voices of all who have spent time with this congregation and in this church on their religious journey, and they are thanking you for compassionate and gentle spirits that you bring to this sacred space. These voices remind you to bring new and meaningful and life-changing stories to these walls. You have the ability to impact lives of generations to come in a positive manner with work you do within AND beyond these walls. Just imagine…

The chief limitations of humanity are in its vision, not in its power of achievement.  Arthur E. Morgan

There’s a story about the Rabii of Minsk, a very wise man and beloved teacher in a seminary for many years. When he was near death, his students gather around his bed to pay their respects and possibly hear his parting words of wisdom. His room was small, so the students filled the room, then stood near the door and down the hall.One of his students asked, “Rabii, after all your years of teaching and praying and studying the scriptures, tell us… what is the meaning of life.”

The Rabii opened his eyes, took a deep breath, and said, “life is like a river.”The student relayed the message to the next student, and it was passed down the hall to the last student. He pondered the words carefully, then said, “So what does this mean, life is like a river?” His question was relayed back up the line until the first student gently asked, “Rabii, what does this mean, life is like a river?”  The Rabii thought for awhile, took a deep breath, and then he said, “Well… so maybe life isn’t like a river.” This Rabii was indeed a wise man, wise enough to know what he did not know.

Time passes in moments, moments which rushing past define the path of our life, just as surely as they lead towards its end…When the Big Ivy River, little more than a bubbling brook most days, flooded it’s banks during Hurricane Ivan in 2004, Jini and I were trapped in our home at 100am when a tree fell and redirected the waters. Jini had lost a shoe and was stuck in rushing, muddy water to her waist, kept from being swept down the river by our aging lab Yosa, who had swam to the road, pulling his leash tight. I managed to get out of the building amidst crashing furniture as the walls buckled. I pushed her from the hole she was stuck in toward the bank, and then was spun around when a tree limb hit my leg. I fell toward the bank, grabbing her hand. Ironically,a variation of this very service floated by on my first trip back in to our home to salvage what we could, and was delivered in Black Mountain two days later for their “water service.”  

Each one of us needs to do the best we can and maintain a “quiet faith,” because we are truly in the midst of a journey whose conclusion is uncertain. How to make our lives an embodiment of wisdom and compassion is indeed the greatest challenge spiritual seekers face. We must dedicate ourselves to be of service to others, honoring our Unitarian Universalist heritage. 

Maybe the Rabii of Minsk was right, Life is like a river. We dip into the river for a time, become part of the river, and it becomes part of us. We are connected to one another, no matter where we are, by the Unitarian Universalist community of faith to which we belong. 

We are connected in our separate lives by the life we share in this community. And as Unitarian Universalists, we must step forwardin faith and work to make our world a better place, for as John reminds us in Chapter 8 verse 44 of the Bible :

“our own lack of faith is our limitation.”

And as noted in Buddhist scripture..

Even if it is a small amount of merit,
Don’t scoff at it, thinking that it won’t help.
By collecting drops of water, large vessels are filled.

Here is an instance of art as healing and of what William James called the “moral equivalent of war.”

Our so-called defense departments, so creative at building sadistic weaponry, lack imagination when it comes to moral equivalents of war.

 

 

 

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